tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7943339383777904038.post6351866170685380074..comments2023-10-18T04:14:42.928-04:00Comments on A Uterus Divided: Little explosionsadminhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05496649217972403072noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7943339383777904038.post-36438161976643257562008-03-14T21:19:00.000-04:002008-03-14T21:19:00.000-04:00Hmmm..I'd be interested in knowing what the shrink...Hmmm..I'd be interested in knowing what the shrink says. My husband was always in denial about reality and never discussed his feelings with me. Made things very difficult. Sorry you have to go to the lunch - hope it wasn't too painful.Yeah Sohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03989848317356232631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7943339383777904038.post-38370540513705930022008-03-14T12:01:00.000-04:002008-03-14T12:01:00.000-04:00Yep, the stress of infertility will do that to you...Yep, the stress of infertility will do that to you, unfortunately. :( I have dragged my dh to counselling a few times, sometimes more successfully than others. We went to see an infertility counsellor along the way a few times, & I think he would agree that was very, very helpful. Turned out we were not so far apart on our thinking as we thought, & she helped us to find ways to compromise in spots where we weren't on the same page. Good luck!loribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272814565916935113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7943339383777904038.post-33315845738943280262008-03-13T23:49:00.000-04:002008-03-13T23:49:00.000-04:00I think a therapist, if they are good at couples w...I think a therapist, if they are good at couples work, will really help you both out. Not necessarily to "fix" something but to help you both grow and strengthen your bond by allowing a space for you both to recognize your needs, ways of communicating and hopefully they will create a safe container for you both to work collaboratively!Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14515461272152076902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7943339383777904038.post-18310910097617778902008-03-08T18:14:00.000-05:002008-03-08T18:14:00.000-05:00Sometimes I'm not convinced my husband still owns ...Sometimes I'm not convinced my husband still owns his vocal cords... and he stares blankly at our shrink when she starts asking him about "feelings". Good luck!Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07923049494756911105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7943339383777904038.post-9137464696397377802008-03-08T18:08:00.000-05:002008-03-08T18:08:00.000-05:00J sounds a lot like the hub as far as sharing. It ...J sounds a lot like the hub as far as sharing. It is very very difficult to get him to open up. I think it really only happens every 6 months or so & it's usually after a big fight when it's imperative to our relationship that he share some emotion. <BR/><BR/>I know with him it's because he has been self-suffcient since he was 16 with some terrible family relationships before that that makes him hold everything so close. I wish I had some good advice, but I definitely have empathy. I too have often thought that not saring emotions= not having emotions.<BR/>There have been times I wished that we would have done couples therapy. I wish you luck with all of it & I hope it gets better soon.jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17579483658489666087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7943339383777904038.post-80164419066559713732008-03-06T22:25:00.000-05:002008-03-06T22:25:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05816972200056579468noreply@blogger.com